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Diversity at the workplace has led to an increase in interaction between colleagues o the opposite sex- so much so, that these days, it just seem to make eminent sense to have a purely platonic girlfriend or boyfriend at the office – a “work spouse,” if you will.

Having a work spouse is more than simple jokes and fun, as they are uniquely bonded individuals who can relate and provide emotional support during stressful times. Even tough by pure definition, work-spouse relationships are platonic. It`s the latent possibility for hanky panky that makes relationship experts wary of such associations. It is too easy for any boy-girl kind of relationships to morph into a dangerous affair.

Your comments are most welcome.
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Destroy those envying roots and enjoy lasting peace. Just be aware when the feeling of
 jealousy arises, and you will be surprise, it simply disappears. Jealousy cannot be overcome
either by escaping from it or hating the object of jealousy.

Understand the way out of jealousy is not be surprising it or denying its existence. 
Expressing and encouraging it is also not the way because then you are not ready
to face he jealousy with awareness. Just watch how jealousy arise in you,
how it develops into hatred for the object of jealousy, how it creates restlessness
and frustration inside you and make you lose all of your peace and calm.

Do not condemn the object of jealousy. The object has not generated the
emotions from outside. The jealousy is happening inside you. The fire of jealousy
can just consume you completely if you don’t control it with the fire extinguisher of
you awareness. Once you witness your jealousy with awareness, you will realize
that it does not have a basis for existence at all.  When this happens, jealously
will drop automatically. You won`t have to drop it.

Best Wishes!
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Diversity at the workplace has led to an increase in interaction between colleagues o the opposite sex- so much so, that these days, it just seem to make eminent sense to have a purely platonic girlfriend or boyfriend at the office – a “work spouse,” if you will.

Having a work spouse is more than simple jokes and fun, as they are uniquely bonded individuals who can relate and provide emotional support during stressful times. Even tough by pure definition, work-spouse relationships are platonic. It`s the latent possibility for hanky panky that makes relationship experts wary of such associations. It is too easy for any boy-girl kind of relationships to morph into a dangerous affair.

Your comments are most welcome.
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The 7 systems of balance:

The secret to a balanced life is in the balance of passion and structure.
The wonders of our age, all of the new ways to do things, all of the new ways to be in contact with others, the access to any and all sources of information, all of the new ways to travel, all these limitless opportunities make it possible for you to pursue your passion, your ideas, you interest, your love.

In pursuing our passion to be happy, we ultimately become unhappy. Why? The missing ingredient is balance. It is just how human beings are made. In order to be happy, your life must be balance. Otherwise your body and brain send you powerful signals, telling you that something is wrong. You see, your body and your brain are only trying to help you. The signals tell you that it is time to do something about the imbalance in your life or problems are sure to arise. Done in the right way, pursuing your passion can turn you on, it can lead you to new ground, and it can help you to realize your dreams.
Best wishes!
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The 7 systems of balance:

The secret to a balanced life is in the balance of passion and structure.
The wonders of our age, all of the new ways to do things, all of the new ways to be in contact with others, the access to any and all sources of information, all of the new ways to travel, all these limitless opportunities make it possible for you to pursue your passion, your ideas, you interest, your love.

In pursuing our passion to be happy, we ultimately become unhappy. Why? The missing ingredient is balance. It is just how human beings are made. In order to be happy, your life must be balance. Otherwise your body and brain send you powerful signals, telling you that something is wrong. You see, your body and your brain are only trying to help you. The signals tell you that it is time to do something about the imbalance in your life or problems are sure to arise. Done in the right way, pursuing your passion can turn you on, it can lead you to new ground, and it can help you to realize your dreams.
Best wishes!
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when one criticizes you, it teaches that no two people are alike. When someone breaks your heart, it teaches you that loving someone does not always mean that love will come back to you the way you want it to.
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Having Faith: The one predominant quality of faith is fearlessness. A person without faith is like a pendulum of a wall clock, vacillating between fear and sorrow, but one who has unshakable faith in God is the real hero who stands firm like a rock through all storms of life.
A real spiritual being is fearless, balanced, disciplined, calm and an organised person. (S)he can never be a troublesome and irritating personality. Moreover, (S)he cannot be an insensitive person.
Sterling faith is closely associated with selfless love.
One, who possess faith, knows that God is with me and in me. And the rays of His Grace are a means of transport. The destination of this journey is boundless joy. Anyone who follows through unceasingly on faith is bound to get the experience of joy that knows no end. -Ved Smriti Gour.
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In a society in which instant food, instant education and even instant cities are everyday phenomena, no product is more swiftly fabricated or more ruthlessly destroyed than the instant celebrity. Nations advancing towards super-industrialism sharply step up their out of these “psycho-economic” products. Instant celebrities burst upon the consciousness of millions like an image-bomb-which is exactly what they are.
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Spread Calm: To subdue fear; I resort to my spiritual practice- Christian Science- especially a Bible verse: "God is love..Love contains no fear- indeed fully-developed love expels every particle of fear, "The concept of God as Love itself, leaves no space for its opposite, fear, and calm my thought. Helplessness than gives place to a divine sense of safety that ripples out to others. This is what we need to do- spread calm instead of fear. -Annu Matthai. [this appeared in a local paper and is reproduced for the benefit of the members of "sundercircle". Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani.

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Maxim for life: Success is less about luck and more about practice 

• What you give away comes back to you in a river.
• Money is the inevitable consequence of value delivered in other human beings.
• To have what few have, do what few do.
• Think for yourself.
• Being happy makes you more productive, creative and exceptional.
• Don`t be selfish. Too many people think that`s cool. It`s not.
  -Robin Sharma
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In the next half century, with the world facing challenges and discontinuities we will more than ever, need entrepreneurs in all domains. Only entrepreneurs can turn these challenges into opportunities and bring about change that will take us into more sustainable and equitable era by 2050.
Times may be changing, but opportunities are ample.
While a new breed of young entrepreneurs is ready to take on the world, there will be lot of ups and downs. While the highs are the best highs one can have the lows are the worst lows that one can be victims of. Overcome those lows, because there were no lows there would be no highs. So don`t give us. If your first idea doesn’t work, try another. Seek the advice of your contemporaries, people who are a bit ahead of you as well as people who are bit behind you. Learn from each other and support each other.
Kind Regards
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It's often difficult to say no because of the desire to be loved: we want to be helpful, we want to show we care, but we may have little to give, are tired, overworked, or need alone time. Do you feel that if you aren't there for someone, they may reject you? Or that you're somehow obliged to help as it makes you a good' person, parent or friend? Do you ever feel validated by being needed? It's easy to believe that any time you take to relax or meditate is time that could be used elsewhere. But taking time out doesn't mean it is selfish or even wasted time. Think about what happens when your day is spent constantly caring for others. Do you get resentful, irritated, or even angry?

Do you find stress building up? Does the quality of care that you offer become affected by that inner tension?

Or are you so used to being this way that it seems impossible to imagine being any other way? You may even think you're not the relaxing type, or that if you do relax you won't be able to cope with all the things you have to do.

However, by taking time for yourself, by lowering your blood pressure and releasing stress, you are immediately creating a more harmonious environment that can only benefit all those around you. When you take time out to be quiet it means you don't get so angry, resentful, or frustrated; instead, you connect with who you really are. Then what you share with others is coming from that peaceful space. When you are energized and feeling good you will be able to do far more than if you are dragging yourself through your day with little energy or in a bad mood.

So, rather than being selfish, such activity is actually the least selfish thing you could do! This is when saying no to others means you are affirming yourself. The power of saying no is that you are empowered!
Best Wishes
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Unlimited Freedom: Freedom to live as one wishes is sought in all spheres of life. This demand for freedom usually expresses itself by fastening upon some external conditions of the kin of existence people wish to lead. However, there are fes who realise that even if all the external conditions of a free life - political, economic, religious or cultural-were completely fulfilled and guaranteed, the soul of man would still remain in woeful beondage if failed to realise spiritual freedom.
Only spiritual freedom is absolute and unlimited. When it is won through persistent efforts, it is secured forever. It is only in spiritual freedom that one can have abiding happiness and unimpaired Self-Knowledge. It is only in spiritual freedom that there arises the supreme certainty of Truth- Meher Baba. [This article appeared in a local paper "DNA", and now is reproduced for the benefit of its members (about 4000+). Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani.
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Choose Your Options with Care.
Everyday in our life, we perhaps have some kind of bad experience, big or small. One has two options: either ignore them or react. The first option is a form of forgiveness, while the other amounts to engagement and in some cases, even revenge.

Which is the better option?

Forgiveness is a better option for it is based on a proven formula: `save yourself`. Forgiveness saves you from distraction, it saves your time, and it saves you from creating more problems. Forgiveness could amount to an instant solution to the problem.

In contrast, reaction and emotional revenge means turning the bad into worse, for revenge tends to worsen the problem. If forgiveness is buying time, revenge is just wasting time without hope of any positive result.

“To error is human, but to forgive is divine” For the core, aren`t we all really divine beings?

Best wishes!

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Is There a God? Is there a God? If so why does he make himself invisible to us?
The fact is that you cannot see God does not mean that H does not exist. The truth does not cease to be just because it is indivisible to us. Our test of Earth is to believe in something what we cannot see by listening to our inner voice. God does not have to prove Himself to us. We have to prove ourselves  to God. It is only through your subconscious that you can experience God. You will never be able to understand God completely on Earth but you can experience Him by choosing goodness. Intelligence is a great gift, only if used in harmony with the gifts of faith and wisdom- Khorshed Bhavnagri. [This article appeared in a local paper, and is reproduced for the benefit of the members of "sundercircle]. Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani.

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Do enjoy your life: Life is always going to give you a new situation and a new challenge, but you, should never be comfortable in any situation-good or bad-as everything is going to change. When you sleep at night and dreams begin, you forget the so-called real world. When the dream is over, the cycle of deep sleep comes and then you leave behind the dream world too. Deep sleep brings the transition from real to dream world and this happens so smoothly that you are not even aware of the happening. Death too brings the change from this life to next, from this body to next body, and then this life which seems real will be forgotten like a dream.As long as it is there, enjoy it! But you cannot enjoy life if you don`t know what eternal is, ie, what is that which is non-changing. for this, deeper understanding of life and its ways are to be learnt, as one needs to be trained to abide in joyfulness. [This appeared in a local paper today, and is being reproduced for the benefit of the members of "sundercircle". Your comments are most welcome. Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani. sunderkt@gmail.com

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Creativity: Where does creativity comes from- It is about an inner consciousness, something that is active within us, that requires expression. Bijoy Jain believes that it is also guided by- what we have all been gifted with-our five senses to perceived and a sixth one which he calls intuition, which is a leap of faith, but more a sense of belief in a moment in time. And that action of a moment of belief is where creativity lies. It`s inherent within us. And it flows. And it rises up. And this also an action which is a response to gravity-where you experience both wight and lightness. It`s just recognizing that we inherently are gifted. Every single one of us. [This was published in a local paper and now it is reproduced for the information of the members of "sundercircle"]. Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani 20150315
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Germany is a highly industrialized country. In such a country, many will think its people lead a luxurious life.

When i arrived at Hamburg , my colleagues walked into the restaurant, we noticed that a lot of tables were empty. There was a table where a young couple was having their meal. There were only two dishes and two cans of beer on the table. I wondered if such simple meal could be romantic, and whether the girl will leave this stingy guy.

There were a few old ladies on another table. When a dish is served, the waiter would distribute the food for them, and they would finish every bit of the food on their plates.

As we were hungry, our local colleague ordered more food for us.When we left, there was still about one third of un-consumed food on the table.

When we were leaving the restaurant, the old ladies spoke to us in English, we understood that they were unhappy about us wasting so much food.

"We paid for our food, it is none of your business how much food we left behind," my colleague told the old ladies. The old ladies were furious. One of them immediately took her hand phone out and made a call to someone. After a while, a man in uniform from Social Security organisation arrived. Upon knowing what the dispute was, he issued us a 50 Euro fine. We all kept quiet.

The officer told us in a stern voice, "ORDER WHAT YOU CAN CONSUME, MONEY IS YOURS BUT RESOURCES BELONG TO THE SOCIETY. THERE ARE MANY OTHERS IN THE WORLD WHO ARE FACING SHORTAGE OF RESOURCES. YOU HAVE NO REASON TO WASTE RESOURCES."

The mindset of people of this rich country put all of us to shame. WE REALLY NEED TO REFLECT ON THIS. We are from country which is not very rich in resources. To save face, we order large quantity and also waste food when we give others a treat.
(Courtesy: A friend who is now changed a lot)

THE LESSON IS:- THINK SERIOUSLY ABOUT CHANGING OUR BAD HABITS. Expecting acknowledgment, that u read the message and forward to your contacts.
VERY TRUE -"MONEY IS YOURS BUT RESOURCES BELONG TO THE SOCIETY."

Do forward
 if its a repeat consider it a reminder ☺☺☺
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Beyond Comparison: India is such a rich and colorful culture. It is so chaotic but it is still so beautiful. It has taken thousands of years to create this variety of culture. Her, we have not been afraid to welcome anything.
We have been open to any kind of God, every kind of belief, and we accept any kind of philosophy in the world, because in this culture, the spiritual sciences have been looked at with such depth. Such a thing has not happened anywhere else. In this culture we know how to manufacture an enlightened being. We know if we do this with a person, he will become like that. No other culture has looked at the inner science with as much depth and understanding as this culture has. It is very important, not just for us but for the whole world, that this culture is preserved, nurtured and available for everybody to experience- Sadhguru Jaggi Vasudev. [This appeared in a local paper and now it is reproduced for the benefit of the members of "sundercircle". Your feedback is most welcome. Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani. sunderkt@gmail.com

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Life is Action: I do not know if you have noticed in the morning, high up in the sky, the big vultures the big birds, flying without a movement of their wings, flying by the current of the air, silently moving. That is action. And also the worm under the earth, eating- that too is activity, that is also action. So also is it action when a politician gets up on the platform and says nothing, or when a person writes, reads, or makes a statue out of marble. 
That is also action when a man, who has a family, goes to the office for the next 40 years, day after day, doing drudgery work without much meaning, wasting his life endlessly about nothing! All that a scientist, an artist, a musician, a speaker does, that too is action. Life is action from the beginning to the end; the whole movement is action.- J Krishnamurti [This appeared in a local paper, and is now reproduced for the benefit of the members of "sundercircle". Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani. sunderkt@gmail.com

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Give up your excuses: Ninety-nine percent of all failures come from people who have a habit of making excuses. If you want to create the life of your dream, then you are going to have to take 100% responsibility for your life as well. That means giving up all your excuses, all your victim stories, all the reasons why you can`t and why you haven`t up until now, and all your blaming of outside circumstances. You have to give them all up forever. If something does`t turn out as planned, you will ask yourself, "How did I create that? What was I thinking? What were my habits? What did I say or not say? What did I do or not do to create that result"How did I get the other person to act that way? What do I need to do differently next time to get the result I want?"- Jack Canfield. [This article appeared in a local paper and now is reproduced for the benefit of the members of "sundercircle". Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani. 

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Mumbaikars: Mumbai will gets its first-ever local trains service with Automatic Sliding Doors (ASDs) on Sunday, the 15th August, 2015 when a rake with one set of sliding doors, which had a trial run, is now pressed into regular service on Western Railway. Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani. sunderkt@gmail.com

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The Best Religion: The goal is the same, the paths are many. ?thus quarrel about the efficacy or superiority of the different paths is futile. For their destination is the same, their goal is one and the same. People who wage wars in the name of their religion  are truly ignorant. They claim their religion to be superior to those of others. They lack tolerance and appreciation of other religions. They live in a limited vision of thought. How can one religion by superior to another, when they all lead towards the same Trusth?- Dada JP Vaswani [This was in a local paper and now is reporudced for the benefit of the members of "sundercircle"]. Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani. 20150311

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Realisation of Beauty: The Upanishads have said that all the things are created and sustained by an infinite joy. To realize this principle of creation we have to start with a division- the division into the beautiful and the non-beautiful. As our acquaintance ripens, the apparent discords are resolve into modulations of rhythm. At first we detach beauty from its surroundings, we hold it apart from the rest, but at the end we realize its harmony with all. Then the music of beauty has no more need of exciting us with loud noise; it renounces violence, and appeals to our hearts with the truth that it is meekness that inherits the earth- Rabindranath Tagore. [This article was published in a local paper and is now reproduced for the information of the members of "sundercircle". Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani. 20150310.

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Life is all about connections. Our mental, emotional, physical and psychic selves only establish connections, be it with nature, people of things. We don`t know how to relate to them. We do not build relationships. When we connect with consciousness and awareness with what is around us, only then do we actually relate to them. Bu we do relate to something and that is our selfish nature. Any action based on the selfish motive will not endure long.
                                                                                  Kind Regards
                                                                                  Sunder Thadani.
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India is a funny place for business. Nitin Gadkari has proved it.

Which other country can claim such a distinction, which showcases

Not only multitasking abilities, but also socio-economic equality? Can

Barack Obama`s chauffeur take on the job of a company director even

while continuing to drive the US president around? Can Mitt Romey`s

driver do both such jobs at the same time? Nope, It`s only in India

where such inspiring success stories are possible

Drivers, peons, munims(Accountants),  astrologers, who are part of the Gadkari

network of companies have all shown a commendable flair for

business affairs and have been suitably rewarded with high corporate

office. Moreover, the BJP leader is not the only one under whose

benevolent disposition such enterprise has been encouraged to thrive.

Similar success stories abound right across India`s political spectrum.

The reason for his is simple. Unlike elsewhere, in India the danda (stick)

of the law is accommodative of `h`s, as in `hera-pheri`(cheating).  This small

inclusion changes the danda (stick) of the law into the business of dhandha

(business) as usual

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Ethic of Responsibility: The principle spiritual exercise of Confucianism is self-cultivation whose practice leads to true selfhood. Through following this virtue, we embrace or enable family cohesiveness, social solidarity, national integrity, and world peace. It provides an authentic possibility of transcending selfishness, nepotism, parochialism, ethnocentrism, nationalism, regionalism, and anthropocentrism. Success in this matter is dictated by an ethic of responsibility informed by a transcendent vision. Indeed, our daily life is not merely secular but a response to an onto-cosmological decree. Since the Mandate of Heaven that enjoins us to take part in the great enterprise of cosmic transformation is implicit in our nature, we are Heaven`s partners, and thus we can embody the creativity and spirituality of heaven through person self-knowledge- Confucius. [This arricle appeared in a local paper and now it is reproduced for the information of the members of "sundercircle" -http://sundercircle.wordpress.com/ - Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani 2015.03.09.

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We as human beings have power - not just to cause harm and
create terror but to help ourselves of this seemingly hopeless
scenario of doom and gloom. It might seem contradictory that
people are empowered and empower others, merely by being
kind and compassionate and not because they are overbearing,
manipulative and unkind and force their view on others. A kind
word, a good deed, a cring gesture, a warm simile, all these
are like power kegs. Kindness and compassion spring from
inner security whereas aggression and hatred come from
inner insecurity. When our backs are up against the wall,
positive inner resources come to the rescue. Sometimes they
are invisible but in times of distress, they give us strength
and help us emerge as powerful game changers.
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India is becoming a political circus where our leaders [Netas] beat our abhinayas (actors) anytime, their posturing making 70mm look small! For example the Lokpal Bill- 46 years after a nation awoke to its destiny, as Jawaharlal Nehru put it, and smelt the coffee-tops any film plot.
Another most heated topic in India is woman`s safety. BBC4 has released a documentary named as, "India`s daughter". 12 minute video has left several strong women-and men-in tears. The 2012 Delhi gang rape has sparked a new wave of feminism in India, on that was unapologetic and unflinching.  Today, a bunch of activists are working across the spectrum, defending internet freedom, keeping up the heat on sexual abursers in high places, and mobilizing public opinion on social media against everyday misogyny on the streets and at home.
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Quest for Happiness: Now, on the contrary I enjoy life; I might almost say that with every year that passes I enjoy it more. Partly it is due to having successfully dismissed certain objects of desire as essentially unattainable. But very largely it is due to diminishing preoccupation with myself- Bertrand Russell
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Subject:  New Prime Minister of India from 2014 onwards
India needs its next prime minster to have big ideas and push them through.
The new prime minister could reduce reservation in education and jobs by
1-2 % every year, which will help banish casteism from our society by 2030.
It is time for India to have such a transformational prime minister –one who
will modernize India`s cities, solve agriculture and water woes, break the
shackles of casteism, bring about manufacturing revolution and improve
government efficiency. Such an agenda can decisively alter economic
fortunes of millions while simultaneously revamping the social fabric of
our country. This is what said N.V Krishnakumar in TOI on Jan.08, 2014.
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A Confession: During the time I began to write from vanity covetousness, and pride. In my writings I did the same as in my life. To get fame and money, for the sake of which I wrote, it was necessary to hide the good and to display the evil. And I did so. How often in my writings I contrived to hide under the guise of indifference, or even of banter, those strikings of mine towards goodness which gave meaning to my life! And I succeeded in this and was praised- Leo Tolstoy [This was appeared in a in local paper and is now reproduced for the information of the members of "sundercircle". Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani. 0305

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See God in All- This is the gist of worship- to be pure and to do good to others. He who sees Siva in the poor, in the weak, and in the diseased, really worships Siva (Hindu God), and if he sees Siva only in the image, his worship is but preliminary. He who has served and helped one poor man seeing Siva in him, without thinking of his cast, creed, or race, or anything, with him Siva is more pleased them with the man who sees Him only in temples- Swami Vivekananda [This was published in a local paper and now it reproduced for the information of the members of "sundercircle." Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani. 0304

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Realization in Love. 0303: There is a bond of harmony between our two eyes, which makes them act in unison. Likewise there is an unbreakable continuity of relation in the physical world between heat and cold, light an darkness, motion and rest, as between the bass and treble notes of a piano. That is why these opposites do not bring confusion in the universe, but harmony. If creation were but a chaos, we should have to imagine the two opposing principles as trying to get the better of each other. But the universe is not under martial law, arbitrary and provisional. Here we fin no force which can run amok, or go on indefinitely in its wild road, like an exiled outlaw, breading all harmony with its surroundings; each force, on the contrary, has to come back in a curved line to its equilibrium. So said Rabindranath Tagore. [This appeared in a local paper and is now reproduce for the members of "sundercircle". Your feed back will motivate me. Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani
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Life is Action: I do not know if you have noticed in the morning, high up in the sky, the big vultures, the big birds, flying without a movement of their wings, flying by the current of the air, silently moving. That is action. And also the worm under the earth, eating-that too is activity, that is also action. So also is it action when a politician gets up on the platform and says nothing, or when a person writes, reads, or makes a statue out of marble. that is also action when a man, who has a family, goes to the office for the next forty years, day after day, doing drudgery work without much meaning, wasting his life endlessly about nothing! All that a scientist, an artist, a musician, a speaker does, that too is action. Life is action from the beginning to the end; the whole movement is action.[This article was published in the local paper and is now reproduced for the information of the members of "sundercircle". Your feedback will motivate me for further move. Thanks. Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani
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Your Sacred Space: Everyone has a very personal and unique sacred space. When you are in your sacred space, you become peaceful and you come away at ease with yourself and the Universe, with minimal effort. You just need to be there and you are transported to a world of peace and joy. The sacred spaces are so varied- thus for instance, some will find a lake for her sacred space. For another it could be the seashore. For yet another it could be the top of a mountain. It could be a washing space and a whole lot of clothes to wash. What is important is for each one is to identify one`s unique sacred space and find some time every day to be there. It will sooth you. In the fast paced, competitive and inhuman lifestyle of the modern world everyone needs some space to recognise the Divine in oneself. Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani. 2015.0228

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E-office Government at Center?- It is possible only by 2025, unless Modi pushes and decides to push it as he did in Gujarat. It is a long road to e-office.
 In 2005, Previous government included e-office as a core mission mode project  under the National e-Governance Plan.
 In 2006, the National e-Governance Plan was approved by the cabinet and DARPG  was made the line department responsible for the e-office mission mode Project.
In 2009, NIC was selected for development of e-Office software and in September 2010, pilot projects were launched in DARPG, DIT (e-Gov division) and DoPT (training division).
Let us hope for the best.
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Virtue and Gain: Unable to `forgive` someone when they hurt you? Failed to be `merciful` to someone when you could have shown mercy? Lost your cool because you lost your `patience`? Ignoring these vital traits, very often impacts relationships, jobs/businesses, positions and lives too. These invisible attributes of forgiveness, mercy, patience etc are some of the key factors that go a long way in building the visible things that make life worth living. Putting them into practice through your efforts will never be in vain as you will have planted seeds of high quality. For instance, if you choose to overlook you partners` imperfections, the rewards are healthy relationships be it in family or in business, abundant peace, and so forth.....Hannah. This was published in a local paper and now reproduced for the information of the members of "sundercircle. Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani 

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India4u:
By 2018 how 500 million Internet users will transform India and could birth a US $ 200 -billion digital economy and rewrite many rules. But connectivity and languages are big challenges that need to be cracked writes Shelley Singh in Economic Times of February 26, 2015. Some of the facts which touch the impact on Economy & Financial are as under:

* 10% rise in internet penetration increases GDP by 1.08%
* If internet were a sector its weight in GDP would be greater than that of agriculture or utilities
* Increase in net maturity in the West led to rise in GDP per capita of $500 on average in the past
   15 years. It gook 50 years of industrial revolution to achieve the same.
* Aadhaar-linked mobile banking and payments will accelerate spread of banking pan-India. The
   have-nots will leapfrog into banking. Without the internet, increase in banking penetration could
   take 30 years.
* The internet will enhance market reach of products and services.
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And Astrology........Astrology and planetary positions give indications of the future. Yet, there is always an invisible), ie an unknown influence. It is the Grace element that can change anything, anywhere, anytime. This is the reason why spirituality is a step higher that this knowledge. Spirituality is related to the soul, while astrology is related to time. But the One beyond space and time is Lord Shiva (A Hindu God). That`s why for remedying any ill-effects of astrological movement of planets, just pray to God. Astrology is knowledge, it is necessary knowledge. However, there is something more remedial which is spiritual practice and devotion. Regards. Sunder Thadani.
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God Is In All: In the divine scales, vice and virtue are necessary experiences man goes through before attaining the supreme balance of Self-realization, which is beyond all opposites- good and bad. The negative experiences of the "bad", with its consequent suffering. Ultimately disgusted man and leads leads him to the positive force of "good", thus awakening divine love. Hence, the saints of the present are are sinners of the past. In the clarity of the understanding and knowledge they have gained they show true humility. They do not take pride in their achievements nor condemn the "sinner" whom they know to belong equally to God, but help him to remove the self created veil of ignorance and perceive his true identity- Mehar Baba. This article appeared in a local pepper and is now reproduced for the information of the members of "sundercircle". Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani

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Power of Rectitude: Impure men consider life as it is reflected in options, events and persons. They cannot see the action, until it is done. Yet its moral element pre-existed in the actor, and its quality as right or wrong, it was easy to predict. Feeble souls look at the profit or hurt of the action. They never behold a principle until it is lodged in a person. They do not wish to be lovely, but to be loved. The class of character worship events; secure to them a fact, a connection, a certain chain of circumstances, and they will ask no more. The hero sees that the event is ancillary; it must follow him. Prosperity belongs to a certain mindset, and will introduce that power and victory which is its natural fruits, into any order of events. Rectitude is a perpetual victory celebrated not by cries of joy, but by serenity, which is joy fixed or habitual - Ralph Waldo Emerson. This was appeared in a local paper and is now reproduced for the information of the members of "sundercircle". Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani

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Peerless Gratitude: Cicero said;: "Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all others." A heart filled with gratitude is one that promotes joyous living. And the positive gifts with thankfulness confers upon us are many. It fills your life with peace, joy and serenity and banishes negative thinking- for gratitude  and complaints, worry or anxiety just cannot exists together! We take a lot of things for granted- we fail to appreciate them, or return good for good. In offering thanks to God we appreciate the here and now. We learn to stop wishing for what might have been and yearning for what-is-not, and enjoy what is, now, thereby experiencing the full wonder of the precious present moment. - Dada Vaswani [This article appeared in a local paper and is now reproduced for the information of the members of "sundercircle". Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani 20150223
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Teesta Setalvad: Political vendetta is evident in the Gujarat police`s obstinate stance on arresting the activist in a case based primarily on documentary evidence. It shows how te State has the wherewithal for single minded persecution of those who stand in opposition. Counter dissidents politically; quelling them with State power must become the hallmark of the new India that Prime Minister Mode in now seeking to build. Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani

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Spirituality is Inclusive.2015.0221
Human beings make every difference discriminatory simply because every human being is longing to be a little more than what he is right now. One unfortunate way he has found is to put down the person next to him. It is a very rudimentary mindset, but we have worked like that for a long time and we are continuing to work like that. If there is no sense of inclusiveness in individual human beings there is no way that the systems they create or actions they perform will lead to inclusiveness. If individuals do not experience this inclusiveness, they end up creating every exclusive processes. One basic aspect of spiritual process is that it makes one into an all inclusive human being. At the same time it will hugely equip the individual to be more efficient, more capable, more balanced and in turn more productive. [This material was published in a local paper and was written by Sadhguru Jaggi Vasudev and now it is reproduced for the informative on the members of "sundercircle"]. Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani.

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Lead Your Field - 2
Some of these rules, when remembered and practiced, have been a complete game-changers for the people and organizations.
* Energy is more valuable than intelligence. Health is more brilliant than gold.
* Where the victim sees  a problem a leader sees an opportunity.
* Don`t wait until you`re successful to work on your optimism. Work on your optimism and you`ll
   become a lot more successful.
* Small daily micro-wins when done continually over time lead to staggering results.
* Be the most honest person in every room.
-Robin Sharma
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Prayer Should Be Short:
2015.0217- How long should one pray for?
You need not pray for hours and hours. Prayers should be short and sincere. It is a false notion that the longer you pray, the holier you are,. Pray for a short time, genuinely and regularly so that the choices you make in your day-t-day life are a result of the strength that you derive from prayer. Some people like to pray for a long periods of time- that is fine, provided it is sincere. Make sure you do not mutter, while your mind wanders everywhere else. Relax, concentrate and be happy when you pray.
Also, you need not visit a place of worship unless you want to encounter group positive energy. Praying at home is extremely helpful because you are cleansing the vibrations of the place where you spend most of your time. so pray wherever you are, in a car, at work, at school, anywhere.But when you pray at home, do try and pray at one specific place. Make that place your shrine by exercising your strong faith and pure motive- written by Khorshed Bhavnagri. [This article was printed in a local paper DNA, and it is reproduced for the information of the members of "sundercircle (more than 4000 at present]. Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani

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Mobile Traffic Explosion. 2015.0216
A single smartphone can generate as much traffic as 37 basic feature phone, a tablet as much as 94, and a single 40G tablet can generate as much traffic as 132 basic phones.
Global mobile data traffic grew 69% in 204, reaching 2.5 exabytes per month at the end of 2014, up from 1.5 exabytes a month in 1013. Smart devices represented 26% of the total mobile devices and connections in 2014 and accounted for 88% of the mobile data traffic in 2014. On an average a smart device generated 22 times more traffic than a non smart device. Regards. Sunder Thadani

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Mindfulness: 2015.0216
One stops doing any evil when one is mindful, in a state of meditation each moment. Osho observes; Mindfulness means being responsive to every situation in life each moment with total awareness. Mindfulness brings about a revolution in the life of an individual, who walks the path of life with full attentiveness He is able to relax in his awareness and enjoys his freedom by not reacting unconsciously- Swami Chaitanya Keerti. This article appeared in the newspaper, DNA, and is now reproduced for the information of the members of "sundercircle". Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani.
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What one calls a boring life

Posted on February 15, 2015

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What one calls a boring life is what others are happy with.

So I barely drink, don’t touch drugs. Don’t party or sleep around. I refuse to sit all day gossiping about other people. I don’t back stab as a way of enjoyment.

Its called priorities I take pride in my home and keep it clean. I cook, bake, tend to the families veggie garden. I take care of myself and do all the household jobs, like cleaning, dusting, and cooking my own food. I am 84 years of age, a widower since last 14 years and have no kids. I like reading. Writing. Blogging. Video shooting on my mobile phone, and then transferring to my computer to go on the Net trhough my own channel, "sundermumbai".  Being creative. I stay home. I take care of myself by going to bed at a decent hour and sleeping. I like exercising. I take care of my physical and mental health. I am alive and kicking 24 hours and feel good, being the happiest person on earth. 

It all makes me feel more of a kind caring human. A man who says yes to fun with my best friend, my PC, stays home a lot but when I look back I’ll proudly be able to say, "ByeBye Boredom".
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2015.0214
Body and Dharma; There is an anecdote to the life of Buddha. His disciple once came with a seeker. The disciple requested Buddha to help that man grasp the quintessence of Dharma. The visitor had failed in understanding the sermons of the disciple. Buddha then told his disciple, "give him same food first. He is hungry. He`ll understand Dharma only when his stomach has been filled. Talking about Dharma before an empty belly is only insulting it". The goal of Dharma is peace. Mahavir says all apostles who had been and will be have peace as their foundation. Peace should exist at the same time at all levels. If life is disturbed at one level then peace is not possible at the other levels. If the body is disturbed, then the mind is not quite peaceful. Mind perform its actions through body. So, in a sense, only through the body is all Dharma realised.- Roopchandra Jain. This article appeared in a newspaper and is now reproduced for information of the members of, "sundercircle". Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani

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2015.0213- Worrying is Futile!
There is power in embracing your day, your situations, your life. Each day brings its share of light and shade and gratitude for the good times is a must. But mostly, this game of life runs on the balance of opposites. So, if you cannot always control the outcome, what is the point of losing sleep over it?
The energy you invest worrying about the results can be utilised in other ways. Plus, we all know that worrying or over thinking about the results has no bearing on the actual outcome. It is the effort you pu in that matter more. So learn to accept the lesser liked events as well because they create pathways for personal growth and strength. This is secret to a full life- Deepa Nanda. This article appeared in the newspaper DNA on 13th February 2015 and is now reproduce for the benefit of its member "sundercircle". This circle has reached its membership to 3500+ and growing by the day. You are welcome to join and share your experience with our members. Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani - sunderkt@gmail.com

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