Your Kid in the family:- Violence as a tool to discipline kids at home does more harem than good.
So making children feel guilty about their behaviour or teaching them to keep secrets.In India a survey
revealed that using these methods may render a child prey for peadophiles and strangers
Q: what do you offer as bribe? Toys or chocolates? 60%, Nod to watch TV or gadgets 31%, Money 9%
Q: Do you threaten your child? 76% yes, 13% sometimes, and 11% no.
Q: How you scare your kid? 36% "I shall kill you", 23% "Will send you to boarding school"
21% "Mummy or daddy will go away", 12% "Someone like bogeyman will take you away"
13% "I won`t give you what you want",
Q: Do you bribe your child? 67% "All the time", 23% "Never", 10% "sometimes"
Survey shows: 64% leave the kid with servants/driver/neighbour/friend or dance or some other class while at work.
98% don`t check the mobile phone of person taking care of the kid
84% never check the background of such person
82% don`t teach male child about good touch and bad touch as they feel boys can`t be abused.
This article appeared in a local paper 'DNA" and was written by Kanti Vibhute@kantivibuhute9 and now is
reproduced for the benefit of the members of "sundercircle". Your views, suggestions, or comments are most
welcome. Kind Regards. Sunder Thadani
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